1. BECAUSE THEY DECIDED TO: A point I’ve learnt in life is the fact that children will always (and definitely grow up to) make their own decisions in life. And most times, the decisions made are not a reflection of the home they come from. That’s why we hear negatives about kids from supposedly respectable and Godly parents/homes. So before you start blaming the parents, ask yourself whether they actually did their job but their kid/ward deliberately chose to be wayward. So no matter what your excuse for Runs is, it boils down to the fact that a conscious decision was made to go into it. Some other girls have faced worse situations, but yet decided to look for a honorable path out.
2. SATANIC GREED (COVETOUSNESS): Greed here is when you don’t have before and suddenly start craving more after getting a little. Satanic greed here is when you have all that you need, but painfully become desirous and envious of another’s possessions. The excuse of coming from poor homes and hence cannot afford to take care of themselves does not hold in these cases. Girls in this category feel outshining each other is a war (not just battle) that must be won at all cost. Their parents can literally provide all they need. But because of the frivolous nature of these “wants” and probably due to the disciplined nature of their parents (who query every penny spent), they resort to helping themselves.
3. HIGH HANDED PARENTS (Omo “Get insides"): Discipline is good, but just like everything else, too much of it is bad. I call girls (and boys) in this category “Omo get inside”. These are the type of kids whose parents are so strict that upon sighting them standing outside their (prison style) gated house, would quickly rebuke them shouting “Get inside the compound now”. Back in secondary school, a driver drops them off at school, waits until closing hours to take them back home. They don’t know the name of the street next to theirs and their social life is equal or close to zero. Most in this category lose their V!eg!.nity to one domestic staff or close relative (topic for another day).
Now once in the university (freedom at last), it usually takes a little or no effort from friends in breaking the shell subconsciously built around themselves due to fear of their parents. They club the most, drink the most and have more casual S3@.Xx:’ because once the holiday begins, it’s back to prison. They usually don’t even need the money that comes with the act. They are just having fun or at worst “catching up with life”.
4. EXPERIMENT/FETISH/KINK/BUCKET-LIST ITEM: Girls in these categories started off as just wanting to experiment how it felt to meet a total stranger, have casual S3@.Xx:’, wake up the next day and forget his name. While some other just have it as a fetish, a kink or an item in their bucket list. Lists like: Things to do before I leave campus. Or things to do before I get married. On that list, you’ll see “I want to have bomb S3@.Xx:’”, “I want to have two guys take me” etc. Unlike the 90’s, 80’s and below, girls from the last decade are very much now assertive. Hence they’ve dropped all stereotypes of ladies being frigid while now exploring their S3@.Xx:’uality..
But the problem here becomes the fact that after doing it once, twice or thrice, they become hooked to the lifestyle. And just like a drug, they go out of their way to get their fix. Some in this category also don’t need the money..
5. ADVENTURE: Please permit me to use the lyrics of a song by Cyndi Lauper as explanation for this point.
Girls Just Want To Have Fun”.
“I come home in the morning light.
My mother says when you gonna live your life right.
Oh mother dear we’re not the fortunate ones.
And girls they want to have fun.
Oh girls just want to have fun.
The phone rings in the middle of the night.
My father yells what you gonna do with your life.
Oh daddy dear you know you’re still number one.
But girls they want to have fun.
Oh girls just want to have.
That’s all they really want.
Some fun.
When the working day is done.
Girls – they want to have fun.
Oh girls just want to have fun.
.
Some boys take a beautiful girl.
And hide her away from the rest of the world.
I want to be the one to walk in the sun.
Oh girls they want to have fun.
Oh girls just want to have.
That’s all they really want.
Some fun.
When the working day is done.
Girls – they want to have fun.
Oh girls just want to have fun,.
They want to have fun,.
They want to have fun… ”.
Believe it or not, a good number of girls engaging in Campus prostitution are just having the fun of their lives and there’s nothing anyone, situation or fate that befell some other girls can do about it until they call it quits themselves. These group are usually highly selective of the “events” they attend..
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